This technique is described in Lotus Tech Note 1305829 entitled "How to use a Notes widget to deploy a new plug-in to an existing Notes installation" at http://www.ibm.com/support/docview.wss?rs=899&uid=swg21305829.
Using this procedure, users are automatically provisioned with the feature called by the widget's extension.xml. The feature is installed when the user's local widgets catalog is updated. Updates you make to the feature are provisioned to the user automatically, via the widget, when the user's local widgets catalog is updated.
You may also watch the webcast on Deploying Plug-ins and Widgets for Lotus Notes and Sametime
How to use a Notes widget to deploy a new plug-in to an existing Notes installation
Alas I cannot get a working solution for this.
Can someone give an example of a widget for a dictionary roll out using the Update Site?
Regards,
Peter